Step-by-Step Guide to Divorce Mediation in Arizona

Published on July 8, 2025

Step-by-Step Guide to Divorce Mediation in Arizona
Kennedy Winkfield
10 min read

Divorce is a significant life event that can bring considerable stress and uncertainty. While the traditional image of divorce often involves contentious court battles, there’s a powerful and increasingly preferred approach in Arizona: divorce mediation. This process offers a supportive, collaborative, and step-by-step path to resolving issues outside of court.

This guide is designed to explain the entire Arizona divorce mediation process, from your initial thoughts about separation to the finalization of your divorce decree. Our goal is to demystify mediation, set clear expectations, and empower you to confidently choose this beneficial resolution method.

Understanding the Role of a Divorce Mediator

At the heart of the mediation process is the divorce mediator. This is a neutral, third-party professional who acts as a facilitator for discussions between you and your spouse. The mediator’s role is distinct and crucial:

  • Guidance and Facilitation: They guide conversations, encourage constructive dialogue, and help both parties identify and express their underlying needs.
  • Brainstorming Solutions: Mediators help you and your spouse explore various options and creative solutions for issues like property division, spousal maintenance, child custody, and child support.
  • Agreement Preparation: Once agreements are reached, the mediator helps draft the comprehensive written document that reflects your mutual decisions, typically a Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA).

It’s important to clarify what a mediator does not do. A mediator is not a judge and does not make decisions for you. They do not take sides, nor do they provide legal advice. While many mediators have legal backgrounds, their role is to remain neutral and provide valuable legal information. Throughout mediation, having independent legal counsel review any agreements is encouraged.

Phase 1: Learning About Mediation

How does divorce mediation work in Arizona? 

Initial Consultation & Intake

At Aurit mediation, we offer a free, 1-hour consultation with an expert mediator. You get answers to all of your questions so you can determine if mediation is right for you. This is an opportunity for you to:

  • Learn about the mediation process in detail.
  • Understand the mediator’s role and fees.
  • Ask any preliminary questions you have about mediation and your unique situation.
  • Set initial expectations for the process.

Additionally, Aurit Mediators get to know you, understand your situation, and provide you with a personalized flat fee quote in your consultation. Having an understanding of the process and how it can simplify your divorce, you can have peace of mind throughout your process. 

Gathering Information & Documentation

Effective mediation relies on full and open disclosure of information. Before and during your meetings, you’ll need to gather essential documentation, particularly financial records. This often includes:

  • Recent pay stubs and tax returns (typically the last 2-3 years).
  • Bank statements for all accounts (checking, savings, joint, individual).
  • Statements for retirement accounts (401ks, IRAs, pensions) and other investments.
  • Detailed lists of all assets (real estate deeds, vehicle titles, business valuations) and debts (credit card statements, loan documents, mortgages).

Arizona law requires thorough financial disclosure to help both parties make informed decisions. Upon beginning mediation, your mediator will share your Mediation Questionnaire – a detailed form that will guide you in submitting the required information in a simple and convenient way.

Identifying Issues & Goals

Your Aurit mediator will work with you to identify all the issues that need to be resolved. This might include:

  • Child custody: Parenting time schedule.
  • Legal decision making: Who will make specific major decisions (education, health, etc.)
  • Child support: Financial contributions for your children.
  • Spousal maintenance (alimony): Whether one spouse will financially support the other, and if so, for how long and how much.
  • Property division: How to divide houses, cars, bank accounts, retirement accounts, and other assets.
  • Debt division: How to split mortgages, credit card debt, loans.
  • Other financial considerations: Taxes, insurance, etc.

You’ll also be encouraged to consider your personal goals for each of these areas, fostering a solutions-oriented mindset.

Emotional Preparedness

While the mediator guides the process, your willingness to participate constructively is key. Approaching mediation with an open mind and a willingness to compromise significantly increases the likelihood of a successful and amicable resolution. This doesn’t mean giving up what’s important to you, but rather being open to exploring creative solutions that meet both parties’ essential needs.

how does divorce mediation work in Arizona

Phase 2: The Mediation Meetings 

This is where the core steps of divorce mediation in AZ take place.

Setting the Stage: Ground Rules & Confidentiality

Your mediator will help you feel as comfortable as possible. They will explain the ground rules for respectful communication, ensuring that both parties have an opportunity to speak and be heard without interruption. A key aspect discussed is confidentiality. Under A.R.S. § 12-2238, communications made during mediation are confidential and cannot be used as evidence in court at any later date. This protection encourages open and honest dialogue.

Exploring Issues & Negotiating Solutions

This is the active negotiation phase. The mediator will help clarify specific disputes, such as complex financial divisions or creating a detailed parenting plan. You and your spouse will:

  • Exchange Information: Present financial data, and perspectives related to each issue. Aurit Mediation provides clients with a form, the Mediation Questionnaire, to easily gather and share all necessary information. 
  • Explore Needs & Interests: The skilled mediator helps move the conversation beyond rigid positions (“I want the house”) to underlying needs (“I need stable housing for the kids”).
  • Negotiate & Brainstorm Solutions: The mediator facilitates brainstorming options, helps evaluate proposals, and guides you toward mutually acceptable solutions that address both parties’ key concerns and interests.

Joint vs. Caucus Sessions & Tentative Agreements

Mediation meetings are usually held in a joint format, where both spouses and the mediator are in the same virtual meeting. On occasion a mediator may suggest caucusing, where they meet with each spouse individually for a moment. This can be useful for managing high emotions, clarifying sensitive points, or testing proposals privately.

As agreements are reached on specific points, the mediator will document them as tentative agreements. These are non-binding until all agreements are formalized, reviewed and signed by both parties and approved by the court. Many spouses find that they can reach a comprehensive agreement in a relatively short period, often within two to four meetings, each meeting typically lasting 2 hours.

Phase 3: Formalizing the Agreement 

Once all issues have been discussed and tentative agreements are reached, the next phase involves putting everything into a legally sound document.

Drafting the Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA)

The mediator will prepare a comprehensive Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA). This document meticulously details all the decisions you and your spouse made during mediation regarding property, debts, child custody, child support, and spousal maintenance. It is designed to be clear, precise, and legally sound, ready for submission to the court.

Independent Attorney Review

Each spouse has the option of having their own independent attorney review the MSA for legal advice and protection before it is signed. Your attorney will ensure the agreements protect your individual long-term interests.

Signing the MSA

Once signed, the MSA becomes a legally valid contract between you and your spouse. This document is often executed in accordance with Rule 69 of the Arizona Rules of Family Law Procedure, which outlines how agreements become binding between parties.

Phase 4: Finalizing in Arizona Family Court

With your signed Marital Settlement Agreement complete, the final phase involves securing judicial approval to make it a legally enforceable court order. This is often done via the Arizona consent decree process (A.R.S. § 25-314.01), a streamlined method for divorces where all issues are fully agreed upon. This is the ultimate step in the Arizona family court mediation process.

Filing & The 60-Day Waiting Period

Arizona law mandates a 60-day waiting period before any divorce can be finalized. This period begins from the date the initial divorce petition (or combined consent decree petition) is filed with the court (A.R.S. § 25-329).

This “cooling-off” period is designed to give spouses time for reflection and to ensure they are certain about their decision. 

Judicial Approval & Incorporation into the Divorce Decree 

After the 60-day waiting period (and once all documents are filed), a judge will review your submitted Marital Settlement Agreement  Their role is to ensure that the agreement is fair, legally compliant, and, most importantly, in the “best interests of any minor children.” 

Once approved by the judge, your Marital Settlement Agreement is incorporated into the final Decree of Dissolution of Marriage (your Divorce Decree). This is the official court order that legally ends your marriage and specifies all the terms and conditions you both agreed to.

A significant benefit for fully agreed-upon cases filed as consent decrees is the expedited timeline. Judges typically sign these decrees relatively quickly, reflecting the court’s efficiency when parties have already reached full resolution.

Benefits of This Step-by-Step Approach

Following this structured, step-by-step divorce mediation process in Arizona offers numerous advantages:

  • Less Stress: It promotes cooperation, significantly reducing conflict and emotional toll.
  • More Cost-Effective: You avoid hefty litigation fees associated with a litigated divorce.
  • Faster: Resolution often occurs in months, not years, so you can move forward.
  • Confidential: Discussions and agreements remain private.
  • Empowering: You and your spouse make the decisions, leading to customized solutions that truly fit your family.
  • Better for Co-Parenting: The collaborative nature sets a positive tone for future parental relationships.

Mediation: Your Clear Path to a New Beginning

By understanding each phase, from initial consultation to final court decree, you can approach your divorce with clarity and confidence. Mediation puts you in control, helping you build a respectful resolution that sets the stage for a healthy future.

Ready to begin your divorce journey with clarity and control? Contact Aurit Mediation today for a confidential consultation and learn how mediation works in Arizona and how it can make your divorce easier. Take the first steps of divorce mediation in AZ with confidence. Visit AuritMediation.com to learn more.

Frequently Asked Questions About the Arizona Divorce Mediation Process

Q: How long does the entire divorce mediation process usually take in Arizona? A: Including the mandatory 60-day waiting period, a mediated divorce in Arizona typically finalizes within 3 to 6 months, depending on the complexity of issues and how quickly agreements are reached.

Q: Do I ever have to appear in court if I use divorce mediation?

A: During mediation, you never have to go to court. The judge reviews and approves the decree once it’s submitted to the court on your behalf.

Q: What if we can’t agree on everything in mediation?

A: Even when there is conflict, all agreements are typically reached in mediation. Over 95% of our clients that begin the process with Aurit Mediation complete their divorce through mediation – without ever going to court.

Q: Is mediation confidential in Arizona?

A: Yes, discussions and communications made during the mediation meetings themselves are confidential and cannot be used as evidence in court at any later date. The final decree becomes public court records.

Q: Can mediation help with complex financial issues or high assets?

A: Yes, skilled mediators are experienced in guiding discussions on complex financial matters, including asset division, retirement accounts, and spousal maintenance, to reach comprehensive agreements.

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