Divorce Mediation Checklist

Valid Photo ID

Driver's license, passport, or state-issued ID for both parties

Marriage Certificate

Original or certified copy showing date and place of marriage

Birth Certificates for Children

Certified copies for all minor children involved in the divorce

Social Security Cards

For both spouses and all children

Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement

If applicable - bring all executed copies

⚠️ Important if you have a marital agreement

Immigration Documents

Green cards, visas, naturalization papers if applicable

Proof of Residency

Recent utility bills, lease agreements, or mortgage statements showing Arizona residency

Last 3 Years of Tax Returns

Federal and state returns with all schedules and W-2s/1099s

📋 Bring complete copies including all attachments

Recent Pay Stubs

Last 3 months of pay stubs for both spouses showing all income sources

Bank Statements

Last 3 months for all checking, savings, and money market accounts

Investment & Retirement Account Statements

Most recent statements for 401(k)s, IRAs, brokerage accounts, stocks, bonds

Credit Card Statements

Last 3 months for all credit cards (personal and business)

Loan Documents

Mortgage statements, car loans, student loans, personal loans with current balances

Business Financial Records

If self-employed or business owner: profit/loss statements, balance sheets, business tax returns

💼 Essential for business owners

Insurance Policies

Life, health, auto, homeowners insurance - policy declarations and beneficiary information

Employee Benefits Information

Benefits summaries, stock options, pension plans, deferred compensation

Monthly Budget & Expenses

Detailed list of monthly living expenses including housing, utilities, food, transportation, childcare

💡 Use our budget worksheet template

Real Estate Documents

Deeds, mortgages, property tax statements, current market valuations or appraisals

Vehicle Information

Titles, registration, loan information, and current values for all vehicles (cars, boats, RVs, motorcycles)

Personal Property Inventory

List of significant furniture, appliances, electronics, jewelry, art, collectibles with estimated values

Valuable Items Documentation

Appraisals for jewelry, art, antiques, collections, or other items valued over $1,000

Trust & Estate Documents

Living trusts, wills, estate planning documents if applicable

Rental Property Information

Lease agreements, rental income records, property management statements if you own rental property

Children's School Records

School names, addresses, report cards, IEPs or 504 plans if applicable

Medical & Dental Provider Information

Names and contact information for doctors, dentists, therapists, specialists

Childcare & Activity Costs

Daycare, after-school programs, sports, music lessons - costs and schedules

Current Custody Arrangements

Document existing informal or temporary custody schedules and routines

Special Needs Documentation

Medical diagnoses, therapy plans, educational accommodations, and associated costs

Health Insurance Information

Current coverage details, costs, and which parent provides insurance for children

College Savings & Education Plans

529 plans, education savings accounts, college fund information

Define Your Priorities

Write down what matters most to you: custody arrangements, financial security, specific assets, etc.

💭 This helps guide productive discussions

Prepare Questions & Concerns

List all questions about the mediation process, legal concerns, or specific issues

Consider Future Living Arrangements

Think about housing needs, location preferences, and practical considerations

Review Arizona Divorce Laws

Familiarize yourself with community property, child support guidelines, and spousal maintenance

📚 Download our Arizona Divorce Guide

Arrange Emotional Support

Line up support from therapist, support group, or trusted friends/family during this process

Practice Open Communication

Prepare to listen actively and communicate respectfully, focusing on collaborative problem-solving