Peaceful Resolution

Post-Decree Mediation

If your divorce decree is already final, but life has changed, you are not alone. Co-parenting schedules shift, kids’ needs evolve, finances change, and misunderstandings can turn into ongoing conflict. Post-decree mediation gives you a private, respectful way to resolve issues after divorce, without escalating into a court battle. You stay in control of the decisions, and you get a clear plan for moving forward.

Available statewide through online post-decree mediation, with support for families in Scottsdale, Phoenix, Mesa, and Gilbert.

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What is post-decree mediation?

Post-decree mediation is a guided conversation with a neutral mediator to help you and your former spouse resolve disagreements that come up after your divorce or custody orders are in place.

Mediation can help you:

✔ Clarify what your orders mean in real life
✔ Update agreements when circumstances change
✔ Reduce conflict and improve co-parenting communication
✔ Create a written plan you can both follow

If a court filing is needed to formalize an updated agreement, many families use mediation first to reach a full agreement, then have an attorney review and help with any legal steps.

Common Post-decree Issues We Help Resolve

Life changes after a divorce decree is signed. We help you navigate new challenges and modify agreements without returning to court.

Parenting and co-parenting

Parenting time changes, schedule adjustments, exchange locations
Holidays, school breaks, travel, and long-distance parenting
School choice, extracurricular activities, decision-making conflicts
Communication boundaries, parenting apps, and conflict reduction tools
New partners, blended family transitions, and parent-to-parent expectations

Child support and expenses

Changes in income or parenting time that affect support discussions
Unreimbursed medical expenses, childcare, school costs, and activity fees
How and when reimbursements happen, documentation, timelines, and clarity

Spousal maintenance and financial issues

Practical problem-solving around payment issues or changing circumstances
Creating workable agreements that reduce stress and confusion

Follow-through, misunderstandings, and recurring conflict

Follow-through, misunderstandings, and recurring conflict
When the decree exists, but daily life is not working
When you keep having the same argument, and need a durable plan

Why families choose mediation after divorce

Post-decree conflict can feel exhausting, especially when children are caught in the middle. Mediation offers a different tone and a different outcome. Mediation often helps you:

Avoid Litigation

Stay out of court when possible

Protect Children

Reduce conflict and protect your kids from ongoing stress

Custom Agreements

Make flexible, child-centered agreements that fit your real life

Save Time

Move faster than traditional litigation timelines, depending on complexity

Ensure Privacy

Keep the process private and focused on solutions

At The Aurit Center for Divorce Mediation, our approach is built to be steady, organized, and child-centered, especially when emotions are high and communication is difficult.

What the post-decree mediation process looks like

At The Aurit Center, every mediation follows Arizona’s family-law framework from start to finish:

Free consultation and a clear plan

We learn what is happening, what needs to change, and what a practical outcome looks like.

Preparation and information gathering

You will leave with a simple checklist, so sessions stay efficient and productive.

Mediation sessions (online or in person)

We guide the conversation, keep it respectful, and help you work through each issue step-by-step.

Written agreement

When you reach agreement, we put it in writing in clear language, so both of you know what happens next.

Legal review, if you want it

Mediators do not give legal advice. Many people choose to have an independent Arizona family law attorney review agreements before signing or filing anything.

How to prepare for post-decree mediation

Bring what you have, we will help you organize the rest.

Helpful items include:

✔ Your divorce decree, parenting plan, and any recent orders
✔ A short list of the issues you want to resolve
✔ A few proposed solutions, even if they are rough
✔ Calendars, school schedules, childcare details, travel plans
✔ Financial documents related to the specific dispute (income changes, expense receipts, reimbursement history)

Frequently Asked Questions

No. Mediation is designed for people who disagree. You just need a willingness to work through issues respectfully.

That is common in post-decree situations. The process is structured to reduce escalation and keep the focus on practical decisions.

Mediation is generally private, with limited exceptions. We will explain confidentiality clearly before you begin.

Mediation can help you reach an agreement. Whether and how an agreement becomes a formal court order depends on your situation. If you need legal advice, consult an independent Arizona family law attorney.

Often, no. Online mediation and structured formats can reduce stress and keep the process productive.

How Aurit Supports Your Divorce

At The Aurit Center, mediation is not one-size-fits-all. Arizona divorce law touches many areas of family life, and our mediators help you resolve every aspect of your divorce in a structured, legally compliant way. We provide comprehensive mediation services for all core divorce matters, including:

Child Custody

Work collaboratively to create custody arrangements that align with Arizona’s best-interest standards under ARS § 25-403 while minimizing conflict.

Parenting Plan Mediation

Develop detailed, court-ready parenting plans that address schedules, decision-making, and future flexibility.

Child Support Mediation

Resolve child support issues using Arizona’s Child Support Guidelines while maintaining transparency and fairness for both parents.

Spousal Maintenance (Alimony) Mediation

Negotiate fair spousal maintenance terms consistent with ARS § 25-319, without the expense or stress of litigation.

Property Division Mediation

Divide assets and debts in accordance with Arizona’s community property laws under ARS § 25-211, including homes, businesses, and retirement accounts.

Virtual Divorce Mediation

Participate fully in the mediation process from anywhere in Arizona through secure, confidential virtual sessions.

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Meet Our Founders and Mediators

Michael Aurit, JD, MDR, and Karen Aurit, MA

Aurit Mediation is dedicated to transforming divorce through compassion. They have guided thousands of families to peaceful resolutions. Our licensed attorney-mediators are experts in Arizona family law, ensuring every agreement is legally compliant and protects your interests.

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Hear what others have to say

See why over 10,000 Arizona families have trusted our proven, peaceful process to navigate their divorce with dignity.

"They made a not-so-easy process seem almost effortless."

Not only is it their knowledge of the process, but it's the way they made me feel during the whole thing.

— Brittany F.

"...highly recommend…"

I would highly recommend The Aurit Center to family and/or friends in need of their services. Michael is truly a professional, and he handled our case with compassion and understanding. During such a difficult life event, Michael and his staff truly made my experience bearable. They are easy to work with and always demonstrate efficiency and courteous attitude. Thanks to all of you for guiding me through the divorce mediation process.

— Dylan D.

"Truly five-star service all the way."

The patience and kindness that was given to me throughout the process made me feel at ease. I felt like family.

— Patrick F.

"They made a not-so-easy process seem almost effortless."

Not only is it their knowledge of the process, but it's the way they made me feel during the whole thing.

— Brittany F.

"...highly recommend…"

I would highly recommend The Aurit Center to family and/or friends in need of their services. Michael is truly a professional, and he handled our case with compassion and understanding. During such a difficult life event, Michael and his staff truly made my experience bearable. They are easy to work with and always demonstrate efficiency and courteous attitude. Thanks to all of you for guiding me through the divorce mediation process.

— Dylan D.

"Truly five-star service all the way."

The patience and kindness that was given to me throughout the process made me feel at ease. I felt like family.

— Patrick F.

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Serving Clients Across Arizona

We provide direct support to co-parents seeking post-decree modifications in Phoenix, Chandler, Tempe, Flagstaff, Tucson, and everywhere between. Find an Aurit Mediation location near you or virtually connect with our expert mediators to discuss updating your court orders

Here’s what to do next

1. Write down the top 3 issues causing the most conflict
2. Gather your decree and any recent orders
3. Schedule a free consultation to understand your options and the best next step

If you are ready for a calmer way to resolve post-divorce conflict, we are here to help you move forward with clarity, dignity, and a workable plan.

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