Remote Divorce Mediation: A Better Way to Separate

For many people, divorce sounds like a big, scary fight in a courtroom. They think it is going to be very expensive and take a long time. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Remote divorce mediation is a way for spouses to complete their divorce from the comfort of their own homes – or wherever is most convenient for them. It helps them work together to find a solution that is fair for everyone. Especially within the past several years, online divorce mediation has changed how people think about divorce.

What Is Remote Divorce Mediation?

Remote divorce mediation is when spouses going through a divorce work with a neutral professional called a mediator. Instead of meeting in-person at an office, everyone connects through an online meeting (i.e. Zoom video conferencing) using their preferred device. It’s the same as meeting in-person, but it uses technology to let you talk even if you’re not in the same place. Some would say that it’s an even more convenient process, both physically and emotionally.

This became very popular during the pandemic when people couldn’t meet face-to-face. It worked so well that it is now a normal and trusted way to handle a divorce. It’s completely private and safe. The mediator can even use a “breakout room” feature to talk with each person alone for a few minutes, just like they would in a separate room in an office.

How Remote Divorce Mediation Works

The whole process is designed to be simple and easy to follow.

Initial Consultation

Your initial consultation is a free and no-obligation online meeting. It’s a conversation that helps you learn about the process. It’s your chance to ask questions and decide if it’s right for you.

Mediation Meetings

During the meetings, your mediator helps you talk about everything. They can share their screen to show you important  financial documents and calculations . They can also use a virtual whiteboard to write down ideas. If you need to talk to the mediator privately, they can put you in a separate, private “break-out” room. This helps everyone feel comfortable and heard.

Reaching Agreements

The main goal is to find solutions you can both agree on. The mediator helps you work through topics related to finances, support,  and a parenting plan for the kids. Once you agree on everything, the mediator writes it all down in a document. This is your settlement agreement. Once you both sign it, it becomes a legal document that goes to the court. You can even sign the papers online using a secure digital signature.

The Best Things About Remote Divorce Mediation

Remote divorce mediation has many incredible benefits, including:

Save Time and Money 

• Less Cost: A court divorce with lawyers can cost $15,000 or more per person. But mediation usually costs $2,000 to $3,900 per person, unless one person pays the total fee. In mediation, the fee can be divided however people decide.
• Faster: A divorce that goes to court can take a year or more. Mediation usually takes only 2 to 4 months.
• No Travel: You save money and time because you don’t have to drive anywhere for meetings.

Join From Anywhere 

You can each attend from wherever you are most comfortable, either together or separately. You can join a mediation meeting from your home, your office, or any place with an internet connection. This is a great choice if one person has already moved to another state. It also makes it easier for people who live far away from a mediator or have trouble getting around.

More Private and Comfortable 

• No Public Places: You don’t have to worry about seeing other people in a lawyer’s office.
• Your Own Space: Being in a comfortable place like your own home can help you feel more relaxed.

You Are in Control 

In court, a judge makes the final decisions about your life. But in mediation, you and your spouse make the choices. This means that any decisions made are personalized to your family’s specific needs, and you’re more likely to be happy with the final result. Compliance with agreements post-divorce is much better when you’ve collaborated to create agreements that work for both of you. 

Less Fighting, Better Results 

Mediation helps you talk and work together instead of fighting. At Aurit Mediation, over 95% of spouses reach full agreements. By choosing a healthier process, you can be better co-parents after the divorce, which is much better for your children.

Why It Works So Well

Remote mediation works because it combines technology with a professional guide.

• Safe Technology: Mediators use secure video platforms that keep all your conversations and documents private. 
• Expert Guide: A good mediator is one who doesn’t take sides. They are trained to help you manage your feelings, find common ground, and have balanced conversations.
• A Clear Process: Every meeting has a clear plan, and the mediator helps you stay on track. This keeps things from getting sidetracked by arguments.

Mediation and Your Children

Mediation is great for families with kids because it puts the children first.

• Protects Kids: Research shows that fighting between parents is the main thing that harms kids during a divorce. Mediation helps keep children away from conflict.
• Personalized Plan: You and your co-parent will work together to create a detailed parenting plan that covers everything from schedules to school decisions.
• Better Future: When parents learn to talk respectfully, it leads to a better relationship after the divorce. This makes it easier to work together as your kids grow up.

Is Remote Mediation Right for You?

Remote mediation is a good choice if you and your spouse want to have a healthier process without ever having to go to court. Rather than a judge making decisions on your behalf, you both can reach personalized agreements to best fit your family’s needs.

Next Steps

Here are a few things you can do to prepare for Remote Divorce Mediation:

• Starting the Conversation: Talking with your spouse about divorce can feel challenging. When approaching the conversation, try to focus on your desire to have the simplest and healthiest process possible. 
• Finding a Mediator: Look for a mediator who has experience with family law and with remote meetings. 
• Scheduling a free consultation: Schedule a no-obligation meeting with a professional mediator to learn more about the process and have your questions answered.
• Gathering information: Once you schedule your first mediation meeting, you’ll receive your Mediation Intake Form. This form will help you gather information about money, property, and debts.
• Thinking About Your Goals: What is most important to you? Your mediator will help you both have productive conversations and reach mutually acceptable agreements. 
• Setting Up Your Technology: Find a quiet, private place with a good internet connection. Make sure your computer or phone is charged and ready to go.

We’re here to support you both, every step of the way. We invite you to explore www.auritmediation.com to learn more about our Remote Mediation Services. Feel free to call our office anytime at (480) 999-7399.